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July 3rd, 2013

Effective Communication in Business


Effective communication means you are getting through, but if you had a conversation with a prospect that just didn’t seem to take, I totally get it. It seems that with online marketing you try to get your point across via phone or webinar and it still doesn’t sink in!

The good news is that if you are telling them the right things, you are still doing great. They have to choose to listen, so there isn’t much you can do there. However, you should know that communication is still the key to making your business work. This includes how you communicate with everyone from your prospects to teammates, and even retail customers if you have them.

So, how you can communicate effectively, with everyone, all of the time? Is there a way to get through to your prospects, customers, and your teammates without pulling your hair out and working around the clock? Yes, there is!

I am going ot share with you how you can easily communicate with everyone in your niche market, everytime, while working smarter NOT harder!

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Effective Communication? What’s That?

If you have ever had a discussion, and later it turned out to be a huge misunderstanding, you are NOT alone. This happens so often, and it’s amazing how often this happens when marketers are talking to prospects. Let me tell you a story.

I went to an event that was rather exciting, and it was for a new company that was ablaze with excitement for many reasons. Some of the top marketers in the industry had joined, and it was growing quickly. I was excited too, but along the way, I knew I needed to stay grounded and focus more on leading with value than anything else.

In the background, I could overhear a portion of a conversation that went something like this:

“This system is so easy, you could make money with it in 24 hours. A 12 year old can do this, you’ll make thousands fast.”

Not that I dispel that, or that it isn’t possible, but leading with that information leads people astray. This is NOT an example of effective communication at all. Although it’s a causal conversation, it’s a HUGE miscommunication in recruiting in it’s biggest form.  This conversation conveyed many messages to me including:

  1. Money is more important
  2. Teaching isn’t necessary to recruit
  3. Leading with value isn’t critical
  4. Telling someone something just to get someone in and hope the system sells itself is okay

Wrong on all counts, a total failure. This is why leading with value is so critical because this happens on a daily basis. This is why so many end up chasing friends and family, and ultimately they end up working out of desperation. If we want long term success, don’t you think that we should handle prospecting with care?

Sometimes it’s the message that is true, but the delivery can be quite poor. In this story, it’s very poor. How can you change this conversation into a good example of effective communication to become a positive prospecting experience?

How Effective Communication Can Help You Grow Your Business

While communication skills seem to be a lost art, they are MUCH needed to grow our businesses. In fact, I would say that the ability to communicate effectively is often last on the “to do” list of most marketers. Where does it fall on your list of things that are important?

Whether you are prospecting, training via a webinar, or even at a networking event, how you communicate is so important. Your body language can speak just as loud as your words, and it’s important that you work at this through your lifelong career and personally for the sake of your relationships with friends and family.

I hope that you found this article helpful, and that you are able to make great strides with both friends and family and in your business. If you would like to learn more about the effective communication skills of the six figure mentors I work with, just go HERE right now to get access to your FREE 7 day BOOTCAMP!

July 2nd, 2013

Listening Skills Are a Lost Art


Listening skills seem to be scarce these days, but it’s the people that have them that are quite successful in their business. If you are lacking success in your business, would you consider that maybe listening better could be a contributing factor to it? What if I told you that better communication all around would fix the lack that you are experiencing in your business?

There is no doubt that that listening seems to be a lost art, and its this skill that changes the way people look at you and respect you.  Whether or not you make yourself available to others is a big deal, and having said that, would you say that you are closer to being a better listener for your customer? While you may not have given strong consideration to the ability to listen, it’s important!

You certainly won’t attract many folks if you don’t listen to them, and you certainly won’t get much respect either. So, how can your listening skills serve you well in life and in business?

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Why You Need Listening Skills

If you are in denial as to WHY you need good listening skills, then you need some work. I am sure that you don’t like it when people don’t listen to you, am I right?

This is a HUGE problem, and if you just started your business you need to listen! Listen every chance you get to everyone about everything. Sure, not everything will be something you agree with, but you need to listen and learn as much as you can.

I also don’t expect you to believe everything you hear, and I don’t expect you to listen intently to everyone either. Not everyone is an expert in online marketing. However, you do need to take away as much knowledge as you can, and once you do, it’s a matter of testing it. Listening to those that have had success in whatever it is that you are trying to do is good advice, and then it’s up to you to take action.

Remember, listening is different from hearing in that you are actually getting what the other person is saying to you. That could be good and it could be bad! It’s your choice!

The best thing you can do is filter what you are listening to, in life and in business. Remember, everything you do is up to you and yes, that does include listening!

Listening Skills is the Grandest Form of Communication!

What would you say if I told you that listening was the best form of communication known to man?

We actually do spend a lot of our time listening, but do we actually retain anything? Hmm, that is the tough question most people are afraid to answer.  We spend a lot of time reading, writing, and watching videos too, but listening is where it’s at. Listening to others is what gets us to the next spot, the next level in life or business, and it’s what we retain that is important.

When someone is speaking to you to tell you something, OR they are asking you a question, spacing out on them will ruin your chances of relationship building, and it could ruin your chances of making a deal with them. No matter what your business is about or how successful you are, you cannot afford to NOT listen to others. Remember, you cannot afford for them to NOT listen to you either, so be professional and listen respectfully to them if you want the same in return.

You’ll find that whether in person or over the phone your prospects will be forever grateful for that fact that you listened to them, and they are more likely to recommend you to others, and be the word of mouth in social media that you really desire.

If you would like to learn more about WHY those listening skills are so important, and how you can use them to your advantage, go HERE to learn more!